It's time to GHOST!

 Many times in life we come across a particular phase where we feel like we are not happy with what we are..... and this is so normal. No worries.

Obviously you can't be always happy with what you are or else you will never develop, will never improve. We always have to keep a space for improvement and self development. Infact such phase in life is the most important part and it might become the turning point in your life if you deal with it the right way. 

But the point is 'how to deal with it?'

See, everyone would have their own opinions on this. But whatever I share right now is what I feel would work out for the majority of us. I am in the same phase of my life right now and I am experimenting something with my life, rather I say, experimenting with myself. I was not very happy with myself right now. I took 10 days to figure out what are the activities that I do in my daily life which make me more unhappy or rather say, resist me from moving towards my happiness in this tough phase of mine. I figured out that social media has ingrained us the biggest anxiety and captured us into its trap. It makes us trapped in a loop which would fool us into thinking that there is no life without social media. Just think of deleting social media applications from your mobile device and you will have another thousand thoughts for not deleting it, eg., how would I connect to my friends, how will I keep up with the daily going affairs, what people would think of me when I don't reply to them, what people would think of me for deleting social media, etc.

Making this strong decision over all such dumb thoughts is your first biggest win. No friend is going to judge you for not connecting to him on social media if he knows your reason and if he is a real friend. No one gives a damn about you deleting social media, no one cares.....

I tried this and I will be honest I am literally living a ZEN life right now. I have no worries, no stress about people and things going around me. I don't have to reply anyone on their dms and reels, I don't have to keep up with people's expectations, I dont have to remember anyone's birthday and wish them on social media. (I can obviously call and wish to my closed ones)

I also observed that I had a bit aggressiveness because of playing games on mobile. I deleted them too and I can see quick improvements in myself. I am proud of the changes that have come into me. I easily replaced playing a mobile game or scrolling reels with reading books, keeping up with college work. It feels easy to focus on yourself and on your development when you don't have to care or worry about things that are not very important or compulsory in your life.

I feel nice, happy, patient.....

My relationship with people is getting better, my nature is getting better with people, my temper became healthy. I started loving myself, I started taking care of myself.

Sometimes ghosting yourself i.e. becoming BATMAN (i.e. slang term) is the best option you could choose for yourself. Once you feel better, once you feel happy and satisfied with yourself, come back...  who says no!!!

SATORU GOJO